King Tut, the Pope, Xena, and a DJ in our living room

If you had walked in around 7, you would’ve never guessed that this was a party that’ll go on until 4AM. If you had left after the DJ put away his gear, you would’ve missed out on the acoustic/percussion jam session that followed right after. This was definitely one of those nights where you had to wait it out, until the right crowd walked in – and that happened around 10PM.

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And once “everyone” arrived… party time! After all, it’s not often that you can just get a DJ to show up at your house and spin a dance party. In fact, it’s probably pretty rare unless you’re good friends with a DJ or you can afford to pay someone to haul their gear out to the suburbs and stick around for a few hours. Etta? She’s friends with a lot of them – and I totally dig that about her.
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I should really be used to it by now, but the crowd kind of changes a little each time we throw a house party. Two parties back, we had tons of South Americans from all over the western coast; our last one attracted more of a European crowd coming from Spain, Portugal, and Italy. Last night? The Brazilians were in the house. We had the usual music staples: salsa, samba, reggaeton, merengue. And later on… much much later on, we pulled out the acoustic guitars for some down tempo and free-styling.

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(-laughs- I love the lighting that the DJ brought with him) I should probably note that the occasion was Kimmy’s 30th birthday – a friend of Etta’s. We “technically” had a theme of Gods & Goddesses, but I think people sort of took that and figured that it’s really just a costume party. Hence, the appearance of the Pope (among others). Not that it mattered. Everyone seemed to have a great time, especially since we couldn’t run out of alcohol even if we tried; try drumming while drinking and let me know how that goes.

And a little piece of last night (I cut in at a bad time, but you get the idea)…

¿Tienes una cita? Si. Esta noche.

Sometimes, everything you need to know is in the name.

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La Cita is actually known as one of the few Latin bars in Sydney that caters to the followers of salsa, bachata, merengue, and reggaeton; the name can be loosely translated in English as a date (though I think it’s more often used to indicate an appointment). Either way, it struck me as a dating spot and a “meeting place”; you’ll either spot couples or people that roll with their crew (usually groups arrive as all girls or all guys – and most are fairly young). I would’ve hoped for a bigger crowd, but I was there before midnight on a rainy Friday, and half the people out in the city were in pubs waiting for Uruguay vs. Ghana

A few things to keep in mind: there’s a $15 cover on Friday for entry (it gets you a drink at the bar – you can opt for a tequila shot with a mixer to start your night). I asked about the pricing for shots: $12-15 on average. You’re better off getting your free shot with the entry, then order the cheapest beer you can before hitting the dance floor. The crowd is a good mix between salsa students, really good dancers, and people who dance to their own beats =)

No pressure! Just fun times. (and make sure you smile at the DJ)

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Palm Beach and Iñaki’s Going-Away

Two hours north of the city, past Manly, the Narrabeen Lakes, and Avalon, between a massive bay and the Tasman Sea, you’ll find Palm Beach. On the long stretch of sand, you’ll come across both nude sunbathers and families, kite surfers and sea kayakers – there’s an occasional BBQ here and there, but mostly eskies. Although, despite all that – you can still just as easily find yourself a quiet spot and brave the strong waves every once in a while.

Towards the Southeast end of the beach near the rock pool, the water is shallow enough that you can walk 30 meters out or more and it still just barely touches your chest. I noticed that quite a few up-and-coming surfers (little kids) stake out this spot to practice standing on their boards. So, most of the families are down this end as well. Basically, the closer you get to Barrenjoey Head (where the kite surfers are), the quieter it is – and, probably, the less likely you’d just jump in the water.

The trip to Palm Beach was about a 2-hour ride from Wynyard Station – it’s $6.38 one-way to the beach and $6.30 on your way back. I wouldn’t arrive late for this bus, if I were you – it packs pretty quickly because it passes through lots of residential areas along the way. And it’s not the smoothest ride. However, once you’re past Newport, the driver picks up the speed since there’s fewer stops – you’ll probably pass three more beaches until you find yourself at Palm Beach.

Swimming is actually prohibited in many areas on the beach, but people don’t really pay attention to it – and there are two Surf Life Saver stations to keep an eye on swimmers in the safe zones. I guess a lot of what you do at Palm Beach is just catch waves – jump into it, get caught in one, splash around – the kind of stuff you would do as a kid (but still very much enjoy as an adult).

I only spent 2 hours at the beach and headed back for Iñaki’s going away party. (It was, after all, being held at my flat.) I got there just in time to help finish preparations until the guests arrived. I’m glad it was cooler evening (and that it wasn’t raining) – we could finally take advantage of our courtyard. I’m guessing almost 40 people showed up, if not more. They pretty much started arriving around 10PM and the last guests to arrive clocked in at around 1:30AM.

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Iñaki invited all of his Spanish friends so it was an evening full of Spanish music. And when the salsa music started – that was pretty much the rest of the night. I met a few people, and recognized faces from the last party. There was Davíd – our resident DJ for the night, Khalid (Milen’s friend – the chic who said I’ve got great thighs), Sven, Gabi, Prue – there’s definitely a lot of people whose names I can’t remember – and Mauricio. A bit of a salsero. He goes with a group to The Establishment on Tuesday nights (funny, because I’ve gone there twice but never saw him before). It sounds like this group of his goes from venue to venue, and he’s pretty serious with his dancing. A good instructor too. I’ll probably try and stop by The Establishment when they’re there to see what else I can learn.

I’ve almost forgotten how much I love (and miss salsa). Dancing last night felt so good. I think it’s because, as much as I like hip-hop and R&B, I can only really dance to salsa. And the best part is that the level of skill it requires is minimal, if you can shake your hips, and then it’s just a matter of following the leader (so don’t get stuck with a crappy one).

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-laughs- dancing last night reminded me of the last time I went to Bembe with Johan. There was another salsero there who taught me a few tricks. I wish I could do more advanced salsa. I can’t imagine ever turning more than once on a single beat, much less copy this girl I saw who turned four times on one beat. Crazy.

So to pick up some moves… I headed off to the South American Festival the next day…